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Mental Health Experts Agree: This is NOT the Right Time to be Making Life-Changing Decisions

While the current pandemic may raise larger, existential questions about life and meaning, mental health professionals recommend holding off on any big moves until things have “cooled down”

5 min readApr 15, 2020

Being in isolation for the last several weeks, I’ve had a lot of time with myself to think; you know, to really hone in on all those insecurities, imperfections and shortcomings I’m usually able to sweep under a rug while distracted with the vicissitudes of every day, fast-paced life. In that process, some pretty erratic ideas ranging in extremeness and cringe-worthiness have popped into my brain including, but not limited to: volunteering with the PeaceCorps, enlisting in the military, applying for PhD programs, getting an office job, moving to a different city and DMing my high school boyfriend, who like dozens of others from my personal and professional past, added me on LinkedIn this week. WTF. Literally, ANYTHING, seems like a better alternative to nothing.

Like so many people, my world is a completely unrecognizable version of what it was a month ago; my job, lifestyle, summer plans and living situation were offhand casualties of the pandemic. And…

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Alissa Musto
Alissa Musto

Written by Alissa Musto

Musician. Singer. Songwriter. Signed Actor. Miss MA ‘16 & Miss America Top 15. Sailor. Vanlifer. 50+ countries. Harvard ‘16. UMiami ‘19. IG: @AlissaMustoMusic

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